Hmmm. This is gonna be pretty fun. Haha.

1. Must have have the same Faith as me. 

So, yes. I am a Christian. And it's really important that like. it's not just by name because like. It's not like im trying to be holier than thou, or any of that sort but It's gonna be impossible to like. See certain things on the same page if we don't have the same belief you know? So yeah.

2. Must be able to communicate with me.

Communication in a relationship is really really really important to me. Like its not just about having funny conversations or being able to make each other laugh or being able to share secrets or stuff like that. I mean. You can do that with any close friend. I think that special communication happens when you can talk about both the good things and the bad things. How both of you solve problems. How both of you express appreciation or displeasure with each other. How you can comfortably talk about topics of all kinds be it as simple as the food you want to eat, or to more complexed things like...idk. Marriage? Oh. And it's also gonna be really cute if you have the same sense of humour. That way, you can come up with weird code words. Haha. And confuse the rest of the world. Like. Chickens and Ducks. 

So yeah. Communication.

3. Must love and accept me for who I am.

I think it's pretty needless to say like how. We've all done things in the past that we are proud of and things that we regret. So. Since we can't change what we did in the past, the only way is for us to learn from it and our future partners to accept it. And. I think my future partner is gonna have to have a whole lot of things to accept. But ANW. some things can be forgiven, some things just can't. But yeah. You get the point.

And he also has to get used to the fact that I'm not gonna change certain things about me. Like how I'm just too lazy to dress up for ANYTHING unless marks are at stake. Or how he's not gonna except to bring me on a date and see me all dolled up in makeup or some fancy dress because. Ain't nobody got time fo dat. -.- I don't. And how I'm gonna have weird mood swings every now and again. How I have really weird obsessions over certain things and how I talk to my pets. Stuff like that.

4. Must love himself.

This may sound weird. But if a guy doesn't have proper self esteem, Unable to take care of himself physically, emotionally and mentally, I dont see how he's gonna take care of me. I'm not asking him to be like. Perfectly stable all the time. Just...not needy? Like. A relationship isn't about putting two broken pieces together, but. I like the illustration of a Venn diagram. Of 2 complete circles coming together to form something even better. (: sure we can support each other, but we're not suppose to depend 100% on each other. (Note point 1)

5. Not younger than me

Now. Idk. But I'm definitely NOT one to go for younger guys especially if they are 2 years or younger. I think it's cuz my bro is 2 years younger. And it's like dating your own brother. That's SO werid. Idek.

7. Taller than me.

Now. Let me just do a brief history of how I lowered my standards for this point.

I am 168cm. When I wear shoes, I stand at around 170cm. I used to want my future boyfriend to be my dad's height. He is around 183cm and aka perfect boyfriend height because all I need to do to reach his shoulders, is to tilt my head to the left or right and it will sit perfectly on his shoulders. TADAAAAAAAA.

BUT. I realised that, well. Most of the guys I know, aren't that tall. They are either, significantly shorter, just that tiiiiiny little bit taller, or the same height. Unless you include my brother. Which, if I were to want a boyfriend his height, id have to go to America. If I were to want a guy my dad's height. Idk. Hard la ok? IT'S HARD TO BE A GIRL WHO IS TALLER THAN AVERAGE. And what if I were to wear heels? Would my future partner be ok with it? Standing beside someone 3cm taller? (Note how point 3 and 4 come in.)

So yeah. I guess. As long as people can tell he's taller. I'm ok with that.

8. He has to be good looking.

I'm not going to be pretentious and be all "oh. Looks don't matter. It's the inside that counts."

No.

If I can't look at you for a full 1min, it's just not gonna work man.

You don't have to be a super model, but. Ah. You get the point. Good looking to me and the general public. Ok?

YUPP. WHOO. Day 3 done. AND. I got my ice cream milk tea to officially signify the end of my sugar fast. Hallelujah!

xx,

Hmmm. This is gonna be pretty fun. Haha.

1. Must have have the same Faith as me. 

So, yes. I am a Christian. And it's really important that like. it's not just by name because like. It's not like im trying to be holier than thou, or any of that sort but It's gonna be impossible to like. See certain things on the same page if we don't have the same belief you know? So yeah.

2. Must be able to communicate with me.

Communication in a relationship is really really really important to me. Like its not just about having funny conversations or being able to make each other laugh or being able to share secrets or stuff like that. I mean. You can do that with any close friend. I think that special communication happens when you can talk about both the good things and the bad things. How both of you solve problems. How both of you express appreciation or displeasure with each other. How you can comfortably talk about topics of all kinds be it as simple as the food you want to eat, or to more complexed things like...idk. Marriage? Oh. And it's also gonna be really cute if you have the same sense of humour. That way, you can come up with weird code words. Haha. And confuse the rest of the world. Like. Chickens and Ducks. 

So yeah. Communication.

3. Must love and accept me for who I am.

I think it's pretty needless to say like how. We've all done things in the past that we are proud of and things that we regret. So. Since we can't change what we did in the past, the only way is for us to learn from it and our future partners to accept it. And. I think my future partner is gonna have to have a whole lot of things to accept. But ANW. some things can be forgiven, some things just can't. But yeah. You get the point.

And he also has to get used to the fact that I'm not gonna change certain things about me. Like how I'm just too lazy to dress up for ANYTHING unless marks are at stake. Or how he's not gonna except to bring me on a date and see me all dolled up in makeup or some fancy dress because. Ain't nobody got time fo dat. -.- I don't. And how I'm gonna have weird mood swings every now and again. How I have really weird obsessions over certain things and how I talk to my pets. Stuff like that.

4. Must love himself.

This may sound weird. But if a guy doesn't have proper self esteem, Unable to take care of himself physically, emotionally and mentally, I dont see how he's gonna take care of me. I'm not asking him to be like. Perfectly stable all the time. Just...not needy? Like. A relationship isn't about putting two broken pieces together, but. I like the illustration of a Venn diagram. Of 2 complete circles coming together to form something even better. (: sure we can support each other, but we're not suppose to depend 100% on each other. (Note point 1)

5. Not younger than me

Now. Idk. But I'm definitely NOT one to go for younger guys especially if they are 2 years or younger. I think it's cuz my bro is 2 years younger. And it's like dating your own brother. That's SO werid. Idek.

7. Taller than me.

Now. Let me just do a brief history of how I lowered my standards for this point.

I am 168cm. When I wear shoes, I stand at around 170cm. I used to want my future boyfriend to be my dad's height. He is around 183cm and aka perfect boyfriend height because all I need to do to reach his shoulders, is to tilt my head to the left or right and it will sit perfectly on his shoulders. TADAAAAAAAA.

BUT. I realised that, well. Most of the guys I know, aren't that tall. They are either, significantly shorter, just that tiiiiiny little bit taller, or the same height. Unless you include my brother. Which, if I were to want a boyfriend his height, id have to go to America. If I were to want a guy my dad's height. Idk. Hard la ok? IT'S HARD TO BE A GIRL WHO IS TALLER THAN AVERAGE. And what if I were to wear heels? Would my future partner be ok with it? Standing beside someone 3cm taller? (Note how point 3 and 4 come in.)

So yeah. I guess. As long as people can tell he's taller. I'm ok with that.

8. He has to be good looking.

I'm not going to be pretentious and be all "oh. Looks don't matter. It's the inside that counts."

No.

If I can't look at you for a full 1min, it's just not gonna work man.

You don't have to be a super model, but. Ah. You get the point. Good looking to me and the general public. Ok?

YUPP. WHOO. Day 3 done. AND. I got my ice cream milk tea to officially signify the end of my sugar fast. Hallelujah!

xx,